Understand
Guided emotional assessment, the iceberg diagram, and 5 signs your relationship is missing real connection.
Feel Close Again
The Emotional Intimacy Workbook
For couples who love each other but have stopped truly reaching each other.
Instant PDF download · 30 pages · by Committed Advice
You still love them.
But when did you last feel truly known?
Most couples don't fall apart because of one big thing. They change slowly — a few missed conversations, another busy week, a little less curiosity. Until one day you're sitting across from the person you chose, and you can't remember the last real conversation you had.
That doesn't always mean something is broken. Sometimes it simply means the relationship needs attention.
Four guided parts. One honest path back.
Not theory you forget — conversations you actually have, together or alone.
Unblock
Name the walls. Visual barrier diagram, emotional availability quiz, and full attachment style breakdown.
Connect
30 conversation questions across 3 depth levels, plus a guide on holding them without putting anyone on edge.
Sustain
5 daily rituals under 10 minutes, weekly check-in template, and how to keep the connection alive.
A look inside the workbook
Real pages from the guide, so you know exactly what you're working through.
Everything you get
- Full PDF workbook — instant download, print or use digitally
- 30 guided conversation questions across 3 levels of depth
- Attachment style guide — understand yourself and your partner
- Weekly check-in template to maintain connection long-term
- Bonus solo section — for when only one of you is ready
Is this for you?
This is for you if…
- You love your partner but feel like roommates
- Conversations stay at surface level
- You feel lonely in your relationship
- You're exhausted from always reaching
- You want to feel truly known again
This is not for you if…
- You want a quick 3-step formula
- Active abuse or safety concerns exist
- You're not willing to be honest with yourself
What readers are saying
★★★★★
"This is one of the few relationship resources that feels genuinely helpful instead of repetitive. It made me slow down, reflect, and think about emotional intimacy in a completely different way. The questions and exercises are simple but surprisingly powerful."
— Verified Buyer
★★★★★
"I love how the book takes a couple through different phases and talks about so many aspects of life. The mental exercises are fascinating, a must read for anyone who wants to be emotionally evolved."
— Verified Buyer
★★★★★
"I bought this hoping it would help us reconnect, and it honestly exceeded my expectations. The workbook is beautifully designed, easy to work through, and the questions are surprisingly deep without feeling overwhelming."
— Verified Buyer
Questions
Do we both need to read it together?
No. You can work through it completely on your own first. There's a full solo section specifically for that. Many people start alone and invite their partner in once they've worked through their own sections.
What if my partner refuses to do this with me?
The bonus solo section was written exactly for you. You can shift a great deal from your side alone — this workbook shows you how.
Is this only for couples in crisis?
Not at all. Most people who need this aren't in crisis — they're in comfort. The quiet drift is exactly what this workbook is designed for.
What format is it in?
PDF. Works on any device — phone, tablet, laptop, or printed out. Instant download after purchase.
One honest conversation can change everything.
A single couples therapy session costs $150–$250. This workbook gives you the framework for a fraction of that.
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Created by Committed Advice · 132K followers